How to address the issue of husband infidelity

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Date 2021-11-09

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How to address the issue of husband infidelity

Many wives suffer from post traumatic stress due to husband infidelity.

 Intense wounds continuously operate in wives with post traumatic stress and many of them try to solve the problem to no avail. 

Making efforts and spending time and expense in wrong ways will only accelerate the process of the breakup of family and marriage 

and produce additional problems such as blaming self and others until everyone collapses.  

You must apply an accurate treatment method to address the issue of husband infidelity. 

You must prevent the aggravation of both your husband's and your own conditions and build happiness ability regardless of your husband's condition. 

You must prioritize your own happiness over anything so that you can live happily with your children. 

You must accurately follow the procedure provided below to prevent the worst situation, treat your condition, and live happily. 

Phase 1. Treat post traumatic stress and build happiness ability.

   1) All 4 components are equally important. (Infidelity Therapy)

        - Mind Training (Understanding the operational mechanism of mind and    

            psychology, treat psychology and build happiness ability)

        - Therapeutic tasks (Treat wounds)

        - Self-check on progress for a prolonged period of time 

        - Viewing reference videos

 2) Things you must not do since they aggravate the condition.

        - Infidelity counseling, psychology counseling, couple counseling, 

         dependency on religion, immersion into viewing reference videos

        - Lawsuit, divorce, violence, revenge affair, learning sex techniques

        - Immersion into or dependency on work, hobbies, study, lectures, books, etc.


       * You can engage yourself in all the activities after you complete the treatment of wounds and psychology and build happiness ability. 

     When the wife treat her post traumatic stress and build happiness ability, 

     she can live happily with stable psychology regardless of the husband's condition. 

Phase 2. Provide the husband with the opportunity to restore healthy psychology.

    1) The husband needs to see the wife recovering and realize that he also has problems and needs treatment. 

    2) The husband needs to have hope for recovering the relationship and happiness.

    3) The husband needs to build the will power and make efforts for treatment. 

 * The effective treatment of husband's condition is impossible when the wife forces the husband to take the treatment, 

   when she suggests treatment without treating herself, or when the husband does not realize the need for treatment. 

Phase 3. Live happily.

    1) When phase 1 and 2 are completed. 

         - Marriage relationship is restored. 

         - You can live as a happy couple. 

         - Infidelity does not recur. 

    2) When phase 1 is completed but phase 2 is not. 

         - The wife can restore healthy psychology and live happily with children. 

         - The wife can decide whether to allow the husband to treat himself or not. 

         - The wife has the ability to cope with the practical situation. 

           (lawsuits and divorce become possible with desired results) 

         - The wife can live happily even after a divorce. 

         - The wife never commits infidelity. 

* When the wife does not complete phase 1, she is highly likely to become an adulteress and ruin her life. 

* It is ideal to proceed with phase 1 and 2 simultaneously, but the wife must start phase 1 when the husband does not want to treat himself. 

* It is impossible to treat the husband when the wife does not treat herself first. 

Then, the husband loses the opportunity for treatment and the couple cannot restore marriage relationship and happiness. 

About KIP(Korea Institute of Psycho-education)



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